Love?
Now love s a word that you find being used so often now days, with friends family, co-workers, girlfriends/boy friends or husbands/wife’s. but have we ever sat back and thought about what it is that the word love means. What is the meaning behind it. Why we use it. Its like do we actually know how many times we have used this word to our mates or family and etc.
Now for the past few months I have been sitting down thinking about what it is that love is or what I think it is and what it means. And I think that most of us… not all of us have lost the meaning of the word along the way I mean so many people have had relationships where your partner has turn around and said that they love you and that they want to be with you always and that they cant live without you. But in most of these cases you have the person saying this to you going behind your back and saying it to someone else. or your family member like your dad could turn around and say that he loves you but yet all he did or used to do was ignore you or hit you and so on……… or you mum could say the same thing to you but all she does is what she wants and not what it is that you want or she just wants nothing to with you and ignores you…….. now this isn’t love, and its easy to see that so many people just think that saying this word will make everything that they have done go away or help hide what ever it is that they are hiding….
Now I have been thinking really hard(well not that hard im just letting it flow from my head right now) on what it is that love is and what I think it means to people.
Now I think that love is where two people or a group’s souls feel so close to each over that they are almost one living soul. That nothing that person can do can make you hate them for a long time and that if they do love you that they wouldn’t want to hurt you let alone try to hurt you. But love isn’t just about the soul or the way you feel, its also about other things like complete and total trust of that person to know that they would never turn on you or say anything bad about you behind your back and that if they did have something to say about you then they would come up to you take you somewhere where no one can over hear what it is you are saying and try and help you out. But also be there for you when you need them the most and sticking by you though thick and thin.
Now finding that someone that you actually love is a really hard thing to do as you can see now that most people just go for the money or the looks of a person but love is a lot more than that it isn’t just about how rich they are or how they look its about how you get along with them, the way you both just seem to able to get on.
Now love to me means that someone who will be there for you all the time, someone who no matter what you do will still speak to you and feel the same about you all the time no matter what it is you do, someone who you actually want to spend the whole of your life with and who you can completely and totally trust endlessly.
Now there you go that’s what I think it is and can I just say now that I have got people like that in my life and I am so happy and glad that I have found them and got them and I don’t know where I would be without them and a big thanks goes out to these people when if I don’t let them know whats going on with me or tell them what it is so they can help they never stop trying and are always there for me to cheer up my day these people are as follows:

My family – even though we don’t agree on everything they never leave me on my own

Emma – we have been friends for about 4 years now and it seems like I have known her for all my life and she has always been there to lighten my day

Louise – now this is one special friend along many she has always been there for me no matter what. She always makes me smile and feel better just by giving me a hug and she is always there to make me see things clearly so I can sort them out

Chris – now this is a top person his always cheerful always willing to lend a hand and always joking around no matter what it is

Martin – his always been there for me even if he doesn’t know it and he has always cheered me up by making me laugh with the most random things

Now there are so many people in my life that I love and I can name them all but I cant write how so here is the list people:
Emma
Louise
Criag
Nick
Martin
Ejazz
Chris
Sam
Bec
Sarah
Punit
Lee
Marc
Mike
Glenn
Douglas
And so many more hey guys just like to take this time to say thanks for everything and that I do love you guys from the bottom of my heart and always will and nothing can change that I just hope we can still be friends to the very end

Catch u guys later
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